All games can't be won except if losing may be the winning hand. Just as some would 'lose' the argument just to win the sale; one hand lost doesn't lose the game.
But not all games can be so played, as in some games of cards chance lies as much in our choice as in the shuffled deck. With rules applied what is played stands.
Could we though play it again, allowing 'the other choice to be made' we'd find that the game can be won. Yet another played, either way, is lost. Played enough we'd learn chance is the real winner of the game.
We might then ask, Is it all just a game ?
Perhaps, if you so choose; life is for the living and has pretty much been lived every way. But only the living can
and each of us are unique in a hugely immense developing universe.